Eva Mendes Explains Her And Ryan Gosling’s ‘Bulldozing’ Parenting Style


– I just wanna say sorry,
I owe you a play date. Let’s start with that. – [Eva] Yes, you do. – We were texting, we
have the same hair guy, Robert Ramos. – Robert Ramos, amazing. – He’s amazing and he
was like, “You two are so sweet you should hang out”. And he told each of us this and we were… – [Eva] And I got really
excited I was like– – I did too. – So anyway, I was like, “this is gonna be great”. And I texted her I was so excited. I’m like, “when can we do this? I’m totally available, all I do is this, play with my kids”. And she was like… This was like last May
and then she was like, “well, my first day
off is like Christmas”. – And I was like, I literally told Robert, I was like, “she’s gonna
think I’m blowing her off”. It’s Eva Mendes, I’m not blowing you off I just, I literally have no days off. – No – I don’t. – You do, and congratulations
on everything. – Aww thank you. – Really. – But when we have a play date it’s gonna be epic. – It’s gonna be epic. – It’s gonna be epic, I’m gonna make up for it. We’re gonna do so many amazing things. No, but you and Ryan Gosling, you all have two kids right? – Yes, we have two little girls – [Kelly] Yes, are you
excited about Halloween? – We are, but it’s kinda like Halloween in our house every day. – Me too, my kids wear cost– – [Eva] Right. – [Kelly] What the hell? – [Eva] Oh my God, that’s so old. That’s literally me going, “I’m not in love with him, I’m
not in love with him. What? I’m not in love”. Cause we were trying to
be very professional. – This is me going “I’m in love with you”. – Awwww – [Kelly] Like what? You’re so beautiful. Look at that sexy little eye okay. – [Eva] Look at him though. – He’s so cute, yes. You got the notebook and you got Noah. No, but our kids are the same. They’re literally constantly in costume. – They’re constantly dressing up and our kids are obsessed
with “Wizard of Oz” and Dorothy so they’ve
been Dorothy every year. So we’re like this year lets– – That’s financially awesome. – Financially great,
but we’re like you know maybe we could do like a bloody Dorothy. I could just put some blood on you or something. Cause really Dorothy again? You wanna like, you know. – But it’s kinda awesome
cause what my daughter did was tell me she wanted
to be Princess in Black. We’re reading these books. And there is no costume for that. I had to make it happen
and put it all together with all my free time Eva. – Right. – And then she was like
“never mind I wanna be Ana”. And I’m like uh huh
huh, and then I get Ana and she’s like “I don’t
know, Wonder Woman”. I’m like “you’re gonna wear it”. I’m like– – Which one? – My daughter changes
her mind all the time. Our five year old. I would love it if she wanted to be Dorothy every Halloween. – Every Halloween? – [Kelly] It’s magical. – So what’s she going with? You don’t know. – I have no idea. She can wear a sheet for all I care and be a ghost at this point. I am past it. – Are you the kind of mom, do you make the things? You don’t make the things. – Hell no, I get on Etsy
with all those mamas that have time to make stuff. – I’m with you. – You put your life, your career kind of on hold to become a parent. That was really important to you. When did you realize, wait I picked the way harder job? – Well ya know, every day and people are so sweet, they really
like try to warn you, prep you when you’re pregnant. But nobody can prep you, nobody. And nobody told me it was
gonna really be a job. And a job that I needed
an incredible amount of skill for. – And patience. – In different areas. A chauffeur, a cook, a personal assistant to an abusive boss. – Amen, they don’t appreciate it. – No they don’t, they’re not grateful. – I know. – Oh my God, do they get grateful? Does that happen at some point? Do they become grateful? I didn’t know I needed to– – I agree. – And any other profession you would need to take a test or pass test. The only test I had to
pass was a pregnancy test. That doesn’t seem fair. – Nailed it. – Right. – What do you think the
hardest part is though? Cause I have my thing, what’s your thing? The hardest part. – Hardest part? Hands down– – I think we agree. – is the amount of snacks I have to carry with me all day long. And the variety. – You feel like a Sherpa, just going up the mountain with everyone’s crap. – Totally, totally. And you need variation,
you need a variety. – Cause they all like something different. – They like something
different and you need to keep it fresh cause they’re like “nah”. Especially on long car
rides, those are the worst. But even going to the market, we’re like going to the market
but I need to take food in the car to go to the market. – Exactly. We’re gonna get along so
well on this play date. – This play date is gonna be– – Oh my God it’s gonna be so good. – Disneyland and… – No I’m telling you its upsetting and then for me, I don’t
like to be surrounded by food all the time. I’m like I’m gonna start eating it. And I’m starting to resent my children. For the amount of caloric
intake that’s happening. All right how would you
describe you and Ryan coming together, my husband and I came together, like your parenting style. How is that at your house? Is the same or different? – It’s the same, we’re very controlling. Very, very controlling. We are, I think what the term is, we’re always laughing at these terms, I think we would be a bull dozing parent. – Oh. – Have you heard of the bull dozers? – No, but I might be one that’s why I don’t know about it. – I heard of the term
helicopter parenting. Have you guys heard that? Well what else are we supposed to do? They’re like this big we have to be on top of them every second. – Or your house will
flood or be set on fire. – Exactly, it’s literally the stakes are really high so yeah
I’m a helicopter parent. And then I heard the
bull dozing and I’m like oh I’m probably a bull dozing parent too. – You can click A, B, C, and D. – Yeah all of it. – Become all of them. Well how has being a mom
changed your sense of style? – Oh my gosh. Well I went through a period where there was just no sense of style or sense of self really. I kind of lost myself a little bit there. – I might be there right
now but I don’t know. I have so many jobs. – I’m just coming out of the you know… It’s funny cause I started this line at New York & Company six years ago. There’s a lot of dresses
like this, that kind of feel like you’re wearing a
t-shirt, like a shirt dress. – Yeah, I love this. – You have a little bit of you know, you can style it up or style it down. – [Kelly] Yeah. – But comfort, comfort is what’s changed. Before I would suffer. – You have to be able to wash it too. That’s the thing because you get stains. – [Eva] Yes. – My kid’s food, they just
all of a sudden, I’m like, “cool, this wasn’t expensive”. – Right, well that’s the thing our fabrics are made to be machine washable. That’s really important for
me because it has to be. I honestly don’t remember the last time I went to the dry cleaners. That’s bougie, that’s
like old me, dry cleaners. – That’s my 20s. We got a few women in the audience wearing Eva’s designs. Lets say hi to them. Where is Monet? I ran into you earlier. – [Eva] Oh my God. – [Kelly] Look at that dress. Monet? – Oh my God. Hey Monet that looks so beautiful. I would wear that. So, Monet like what works
for you with this outfit? – It’s so comfortable
and it’s very stretchy. Love, I’m sorry. We’re going to his sisters
40th birthday party next month. The parties gonna be all about me honey. I look good. – [Kelly] You look so good. – Really, such a goddess. When I see something
like this, this is our Melinda sweater dress, and
I love a sweater dress. But what I love about the
dress too is it’s elegant, it doesn’t show too much
up here, you have a nice cut right here. – [Kelly] It shows that booty. – Never mind. – Everything back there. – [Kelly] Show us that bass hummer. – Its so beautiful and you
really, I mean my gosh– – Thank you Eva, thank you. – [Eva] You’re just drop dead gorgeus. – Thank you. – [Kelly] Awesome, well thank you Monet. Thank you. Where’s Daniella at? Daniella’s also got– – Oh, Daniella. – [Kelly] Oh my gosh that’s adorable. – Daniella, this is what I lived in cause when I find something that
works for me I live in it. Does that happen to you now, as a mom? – [Kelly] Yes, I get in all the colors. – I just live in it for three
weeks straight, every day. And I lived in this for three
weeks straight, every day. – [Daniella] This is so comfortable. – [Kelly] You know why? Cause it hugs in at the
waist and I need that. – [Eva] It hugs at the
waist, you can tuck it in or tuck it out, and
it’s still a soft pant, there’s a little stretch to it. And then I just love a plaid. – You’re so cute Daniella. – I know, I love plaid. – [Kelly] And you’re a mom too right? – [Daniella] Yes. – You said you had two little girls? – I’m a mom of two girls. I just had a baby four months ago. – [Kelly] Oh my God I can’t stand you. – [Eva] That’s right, you look so amazing. Congratulations. – Yeah, congrats on the baby. – [Eva] You look amazing, four months. – And where’s Monica at? – Hi. – [Kelly] Yes Monica. – [Eva] Monica. – Oh my gosh, so tell us
about what Monica’s wearing. – Well this is the Estelle sweater set. I love a sweater set, especially for fall. I love a sweater set, a
sweater dress with boots without boots. But she’s wearing this beautifully. And I love, did you do
your own jewels here? – Oh I had a stylist. – [Eva] Oh you have a stylist? Okay. – Its awesome. – You look gorgeous. – You look just so beautiful. And again with the elegance
accentuating the waist. And obviously you have
such a beautiful body but it’s still something
you can wear to work and maybe take off the
jacket later on when you… – [Kelly] Yes, Eva. – So, you know, we like to
do a lot of day to night clothes so this is a
great example of that. – [Kelly] It’s awesome. – I love it, I love it. – [Eva] And you’re so beautiful. – [Kelly] Nicely done Eva. Those looks are great. I love you all. Thank you for modeling them for us. Well done Eva. I love your line. It wouldn’t fit my figure though.

100 comments on “Eva Mendes Explains Her And Ryan Gosling’s ‘Bulldozing’ Parenting Style”

  1. michal dahbash says:

    I love you ♥️♥️♥️

  2. Lovre Lučić says:

    What has eva done to her face… botox? omg. She was one of the most beautiful woman in my opinion…

  3. M C W says:

    I love Eva’s dress! 🧡

  4. achm says:

    What has she done to her face??.. So sad

  5. Kimberely Groves says:

    People keep calling her Ava when her name is Eva…this also happened on another talk show that Eva appeared on recently 😆.

  6. CalebAndrea Zylstra says:

    Love your new show so.. good so ethentic Kelly! Will never forget watching you win idol with my dad all those years back! We were proud plus you share the same last name😉💕

  7. TheAlice2319 says:

    I want a Ryan Gosling

  8. Ghōst says:

    "Make sh…stuff"

  9. Tali Alba Blue says:

    Love these outfits!

  10. Kathleen Loree says:

    Beautiful ladies! Love her show! And get to hear Kelly sing! Bright part of the day!

  11. Jennifer Coleman says:

    About time a rich person makes clothes for the average woman

  12. Evelyn Marx says:

    He ain’t that cute omg ppl get over it ! She in the other hand is gurgeouse!

  13. K Mcy says:

    Kelly I know you want it to be comfortable friend chat on the couch, but every time I watch a clip of your show you take over the conversation and make it about you and your stories!!!

  14. You Tube says:

    Face looks different. she reminds me of an older ZENDAYA

  15. Kinsey Santos says:

    My son always was in a custom. He would go to the store ride his bike ect. It was so fun

  16. A Bomb says:

    She looks similar maybe just botox fillers done?

  17. Jessi postbellum says:

    Eva and Ryan make such a great and beautiful couple. They seem so happy I'm happy for them.

  18. Bambiii says:

    Eva is beautiful but She has a very masculine face. Dont you think ?

  19. Andrés Alejandro Rosenberg Benadretti says:

    Kelly rocking an amalgam at 3:33 🙂 keep those white teeth in the front girl!

  20. Lauren Mercado says:

    That etsy mom comment isn't great!

  21. living large on a small budget says:

    I decided not to have children when I was 28 and now I'm 34. People told me I would change my mind but I laugh when I hear women talking about having kids because every story makes me go "yep, no kids… good decision". I understand they are a blessing but I love spoiling my friends kids and then being able to give them back. 🙂

  22. naihanchin Kempo says:

    about half the people below are shallow assholes..i what way does Eva's face effect you idiots. Some opinions don't need to be shared

  23. Dian Diaz says:

    My son tells me he loves Me before bed every night anytime we hang up the phone, also anytime I cook dinner he thinks me for dinner. He is a sweet and loving boy.

  24. Dian Diaz says:

    He is getting ready to go into high school, he is so worried that he won’t get into the one that he wants because it cost a lot of money, but I told him we might be eating grilled cheese and peanut butter sandwiches to put him through it if that’s what it takes. And then he told me don’t worry mom if that’s what has to happen I’ll go to public school. Such a sweetheart even though I know he will be completely distraught with what he wants doesn’t happen he is willing to except it in the end. Couldn’t ask for a better son

  25. Dian Diaz says:

    There is so much to the story than that, being a single mom and All. I love my son as much as I can tell you love your daughters and son I can’t remember if you have a daughter and a son I think that’s what you have. But either way as a mother you know how much you would give to your children as long as you can. They mean the world. Your talk show is so great I watch bits and pieces of it on YouTube every night

  26. Dian Diaz says:

    I would need serious spanks to wear that. But I do love it. Go Eva! Coincidentally that’s what I was going to name my son if he turned out to be a girl. But nope

  27. Miguel Varez says:

    Wtf she did to her face wow

  28. Zarah C says:

    Did Eva have a stroke? She seems to be struggling with the left side of her face and her word pronunciation..

  29. Elizabeth Harttley says:

    Eva please send some outfits for Kelly.

  30. Justin Williams says:

    Why everybody pronouncing her name aa-vaa?? It’s EEEE-VA 🤦🏽‍♂️ same for those who pronounce Rihanna RiiiAHHHHnah 😐

  31. Ser ka says:

    She aged damn u guys are so inhuman talking about these women’s face IDK ABT U GUYS BUT I HAVE SEEN WAMEN IN THEIR LATE 30s that don’t even look like how good she looks at 45 I like her personality and think about us regular people when it comes to clothes

  32. Jojo Jo says:

    The plaid is the tablecloth at grandma's!!! 😨😨😨😨😳😳😳😂😂😂

  33. Jojo Jo says:

    The red outfit (last) is nice except showing her cleavage makes it look cheap. WHERE are you going to wear it to???

  34. london von says:

    Damn all the jealous comments. The women is stunningly flawless. Jealousy is a disease and you bitches need help

  35. Zee Bee says:

    Eva is gorgeous. She reminds me of a younger version of Raquel Welch.

  36. lela says:

    I love that she never corrected Kelly on the multiple times she mispronounced her name. It's EVA…PRONOUNCED EEEEEEEVAAAAAAHH

  37. Twisted Artdesigns says:

    Why why why did Eva mess with her face? She was gorgeous. Now she doesn’t look like herself.

  38. A M P says:

    Eva is beautiful, but she was more beautiful before all the bulls*** she had done to her face.

  39. Love says:

    Damn..Kelly talks too much & too fast
    She over talks the guest

  40. r0bz1985 says:

    Kelly makes everything about herself and inturpts her guests

  41. L -EM says:

    Kelly talks the WHOLE TIME! Like…I want to hear about EVA! Let your guests have the majority of the interview time please!

  42. kptwo says:

    Kelly has the best laugh on tv! Love her, I want to her best friends with her!!

  43. Aliano Fann says:

    New face. New lips. Lol

  44. Aliano Fann says:

    7:56 poor her had to pretend she likes the cheap table clothes pattern on her lol

  45. Kimberlee Quinn says:

    What is the dress line called?

  46. J. Conriquez says:

    I can be available for a playdates girls

  47. Mary Anne says:

    2:42
    That is the best choice I ever made in my life. To put everything on hold to be a stay at home mom. The best job in the world.
    Way 👍👏 to go beautiful model mom..no pun intended 🤪

  48. Cindy Childs says:

    Eva is soo gorgeous and I love her fashion line💕

  49. sakay west says:

    I love plaid and it's a pant suit too!?!? Yes ma'am!!

  50. Christine Decroos says:

    Oh my god, Let. Her. Talk

  51. live in ms says:

    I was NOT the snack mom. People do wayyy too much

  52. tomfeb1818 says:

    I thought jlo was hot at 50 but Eva at 45 is absolutely breathtaking. Wow. She could turn me into a straight man 😂

  53. Krisenya True says:

    Can we talk about the beauty poise & intelligence of these two beautiful women. Full on examples of womanhood no asses no twerking no boobalicious I love this interview I love these women Thanks for showing the world that sometimes less is more SSSSSOOOOO Beautiful

  54. Ruthy Reyes says:

    Eva is one the most beautiful
    woman in Hollywood. She looks great! ❤️

  55. Erica O'C says:

    I love Eva!! But she looks different, something around her eyes changed.

  56. Lovis V says:

    Kelly's interrupting has lessened! Now she's more ears

  57. The Favourite says:

    Ryan Gosling should break up with Eva and marry Emma Stone instead. He and Emma make a lovely and beautiful couple.

  58. Na'Kesha Player says:

    6:18 all the way until the end of the video is the exact moment Eva Mendes became relatable to busy moms everywhere🙌❤️✌️

  59. Ijan Yusof says:

    I think Eva is transforming into Sophia Loren.

  60. jills911 says:

    The green dress looks awesome on her!! I'm seeing the plaid in plaid trend a lot lately. I don't care for that.

  61. Hunter Roy says:

    Kelly!!! Your daughter is a Gemini! I had a inkling when you described her and I looked up and was correct haha! Good luck!

  62. Ms P says:

    This has to happen again. There so funny together. #momlife

  63. Candee Yapura says:

    1:21 me seeing Ryan Gosling all the time 😍

  64. J.M.Watkins says:

    Gosh can you imagine Eva Mendes being that in love with you?? Can’t even process…

  65. courtney hawkins says:

    Wow I love all those clothes! Its my type of style elegant, classy, feminine and the designs are on point!

  66. tmlcrosbyfan says:

    Lol that’s one of he few photos Ryan doesn’t look good in. Why did Kelly pick that one?

  67. Sulueti says:

    Omg her dress is amazing 😍

  68. tmlcrosbyfan says:

    Lol a random fan with a stylist. No way are they random fans lmao

  69. GreatWhite Sharkey says:

    Let's keep the show light Kelly. The last thing we need is another feminist gripe show. Kelly you have a great show but we don't need a feminist view point.

  70. moiraine_damodred says:

    what did Eva do to her face.
    she was gorgeous. and would have aged beautifully.
    sad, sad times.

  71. Amy King says:

    I hope she comes back to acting soon

  72. Keena Harding says:

    Eeeek !! Can't handle it …Kelly talks too loud and too much ..best of luck but yikes I'd rather hear her sing .

  73. enter a name here says:

    Bitch look like she had a stroke. The fuck happened.

  74. foxibot says:

    Eva es muy hermosa.

  75. foxibot says:

    I love her dress. I love tee shirt material. I am buying her dresses.

  76. mkozzie says:

    What on earth did Eva do to her face?

  77. foxibot says:

    Finally something for curves and different sizes,

  78. Matt Lange says:

    Oh my god, Let. Her. Talk

  79. Kimbo Lee says:

    Take a breath pleaseeeeee
    Kelly

  80. Kimbo Lee says:

    These women don't know the struggles they have so much money they can buy a nanny .

  81. Desiree Naicker says:

    Kelly is lovely but she should let her guests answer the question without so much interruption.

  82. elbeejay says:

    Look up 1970's Racquel Welch – close to identical. Voluptuos beauties both.

  83. Lehe Whetstone says:

    Where have I been? I had absolutely no idea Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling were together.

  84. 2323probando says:

    1:25 you got the notebook..kellys face its like " I just realize I brought up the most iconic couple and his ex at the same time"

  85. Shine the Light says:

    She looks like Sophia Loren.

  86. Jo Money says:

    This is a Kelly interviewing herself show 😂

  87. akki ashesh says:

    She looks somewhat like zendaya's big sis

  88. sushi panda says:

    i want me a Ryan Gosling

  89. tjpm says:

    Whatever she did to her neck … I want it !!

  90. She- Bee’s World says:

    Let your guest talk……

  91. akhila rao says:

    It’s like Kelly is the guest. Yikes

  92. IW Nunn says:

    Too frenetic. I'm a nervous wreck trying to listen to this interview

  93. Tanya Karazan says:

    Look how Eva looks at Ryan in the picture. Still so in love soo cute. They’re lucky to have each other

  94. SHUSHU DRAGON says:

    Eva was beauty before even now but she did a nose job😖

  95. Shannon F-PA says:

    Monet looks BEAUTIFUL… they all look adorable! 💜💙

  96. Jesjaz21 says:

    1:23 "You got the notebook ang you got noah" ???? Hahahahhaha wth 😆 she isnt rachel

  97. Burcu B says:

    wtf is kelly wearing ?

  98. erica brooklynn says:

    did kelly just called her "ava" at 2:02

  99. Richelle Knode says:

    You should talk about postpartum depression and anxiety

  100. Stephanie Janke says:

    Who is the host here again? She´s talking non stop. Please let your guest make 3 sentences in a row…

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